sometimes i wish this blog wasnt something that popped up... that it wasnt public. i am an exhibiotonist. but i also dont want to make people uncomfortable.
i am
needing
to mmeditate and respond without reacting
so
i have
'
gone to evry buddhist or aikido meeting i can this week
just came from a workshjop on relationships...
one major point was: shifting your mind from, "what do they need to do to make this better, or to treat me better, or to help themselevs." but rather, "how can i cnahenge to help them be happy, to help them with what they need." simply a mental shift from self-concern to other-concern. and this simple change can help with any form of relationship.
i want to help other be happy, by being less critical. holding no expectations of others. and seeign the beauty and lightenment of others' personal paths. i want to be happy simply for them existing whatever way they are existing. and i want to concentrate on their happiness, rather than my fear that their actions will somehow cause me to lose my self-identity, my good nature, etc. bec. that is all me.
I love you long layers
also i just want to remind people that Allah is not the Muslim god. It is the arabic word for God, simply a translation.
perhaps.. so many other gods are the same, in this manner, a logical one, where the illusion is a story, and the reality is logical, culture brings words and phillosophies, a translation.
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